This morning I was looking to arrange a hike with a very good friend of mine for early on Saturday and I was desperate to go on the hike. Why was I so desperate to go hiking and what does hiking have to do with a blog on cricket, you might ask?
Well, the hike was an alternative to playing cricket (which plan unfortunately did not come to fruition). I was beat up about not playing on Saturday – for me, these days, the week consists of Saturdays and Sundays, i.e., cricket days, the rest of the days are just fillers – but I put on a brave face and didn’t let people know how disappointed I really was.
Even the hike was in doubt as my friend, let’s just call him Mr. T, had caught the flu virus. So, all in all, it was a cricket-less prospect over the weekend. The boys (very few of them are actually boys) can’t seem to gather heart for practice either.
About a couple of hours ago all that changed when I got a call from another friend who is arranging an office tournament. He asked me if I wanted to play. I don’t think he needed to ask. The answer was obvious but apparently he didn’t have any idea about how cricket mad I’ve become – or maybe he did.
The long and short of it is that I’ll be playing a T20 match tomorrow.
Once I was comfortable in the knowledge that I’d be playing, I reflected upon why I was asked to play. Could it be because I’m that good a player? Or could it be because my friend, out of loyalty to me, was providing me an opportunity to indulge my passion? Maybe a bit of both.
Then it really hit me – not literally – that I’d been picked mainly because I’m the chief custodian of our team’s cricket kit (bats, pads, boxes and gloves).
CRASH! Down came my ego, just like the mouse that ran up the clock.
The feeling lasted for a few minutes only, i.e., until I got a call from our team’s wicket keeper, who incidentally is also my younger brother, informing me that he too had been asked to play in the match. He had been picked because he had a wicket keeper’s kit!
On further reflection I decided that whatever the reason for my being picked was I was fine with it. All I really wanted to do was play. So, it turned out to be a win-win situation. I would get to play and they would get to use the kit. I’m happy and can easily live with it. Why this unburdened a conscience despite having cheated our team of its kit? I’ll explain.
It’s because I’m a ‘sifarishi’ ? That’s Urdu for one who uses his or her connections to get an unfair advantage or gain – the beneficiary of nepotism, so to speak. Ever since I was a little kid I’ve been the beneficiary of my connections. If you doubt what I’m saying I’ll tell you the story.
When I was 4 years old I was rejected for admission to kindergarten because I lacked a basic grasp of concepts, which were required for admission, and additionally had behaved in a sullen and unresponsive manner during my interview – the school mistress simply didn’t feel that I would fit in.
What turned their decision in my favour was the fact that a relative of mine intervened on my behalf to get me an admission. It was my older brother, all of 6 and half years old, who interceded on my behalf. It turned out that the school had a policy of giving priority, at the time of admission, to siblings of already enrolled students – thus my brother was instrumental in getting me enrolled simply by virtue of being a student.
I love Mrs. Shuja, the head mistress, for having given me the admission. I also love my brother for having had such a huge influence on my academic career for without his efforts I may have remained one of the many hundreds of millions of illiterate Pakistanis.
In the same way, I love my friend for having picked me and I also love our cricket kit because it got me picked. Otherwise I may have remained one of the billions of less privileged people of the world who won’t be playing cricket on Saturday.